Turning ‘No’ into ‘Yes’: Tips for Getting a Loved One to Embrace In-Home Care
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you know that your loved one could benefit greatly from in-home care, but they are just not willing to accept it?
Maybe they are afraid of losing their independence or just don't want to admit that they need help. Whatever the reason may be, convincing a loved one to embrace in-home care can be a daunting task.
Let's explore some tips on how we can help our loved ones see the benefits of in-home care and accept it with open arms to improve the quality of their life.
1. Picking the right time to discuss
Communicating with loved ones about the benefits of in-home care requires careful consideration of timing and approach. By selecting an appropriate time to discuss the subject, you can help your loved ones become more receptive to the idea of accepting in-home care.
Some things to consider are:
Waiting for a time when they are in a neutral or positive mood
Choosing a comfortable and private setting to talk
Keeping a supportive and non-judgmental tone
It’s also important to provide specific information about the benefits of in-home care, such as the ability to maintain independence, socialisation, and personalised care, to alleviate concerns or resistance. By sharing details and approaching the conversation with empathy and sensitivity, loved ones can be empowered to make informed decisions about their care.
2. Asking questions the right way
Broaching the subject of a decline in a loved one's abilities can be a delicate and potentially volatile topic. It's important to approach with empathy and understanding, recognising that changes can be scary and frustrating.
Instead of jumping straight into a list of what someone can no longer do, it may be more productive to start with a question about challenges they may be facing. From there, gentle observations can be made, noting changes in mobility or daily tasks.
3. Using supportive language
It can be tough to watch your loved one struggle, but even tougher when they seem to be in denial about it. You might have noticed some behavioural changes that suggest they might need some additional help, but how you approach the subject can greatly impact their response.
It's essential to use supportive and non-judgmental language when bringing up any concerns you have.
By acknowledging the effort your loved one puts in and offering to help, you can create a more positive and less confrontational dialogue. It’s important to remember that needing help is a sensitive topic and that people might need time to come to terms with the changes they’re experiencing.
4. Being prepared
It's not uncommon for us to need a little extra help with day-to-day tasks when we age or live with a disability. For those who wish to retain their independence, government-funded Home Care Packages can provide vital resources and support.
However, navigating the eligibility requirements and application process can be daunting.
That's why having some information on hand about the different in-home care options available is so valuable. By answering a simple questionnaire on the My Aged Care website, you can begin to understand what level of government funding your loved one may be eligible for.
5. Don’t leave it too late
Caring for a loved one who requires assistance can be difficult, but it's important to remember that intervention is key. Getting in-home care early on can make all the difference in the world.
Oftentimes, families hold off on seeking assistance until it's too late, resulting in injuries and health events that can force a loved one into care outside of the home.
By taking a proactive approach and seeking care sooner, your loved one can have the opportunity to live comfortably in their home for as long as possible. It's better to think of it as an insurance policy for their health and well-being, giving them peace of mind and allowing them to maintain a high quality of life.
6. Asking for help when you need it
Having a loved one who is resistant to getting help can be an incredibly challenging situation. You want to ensure that they are taken care of and receiving the support they need, but it can be hard to convince them of this.
This is where external support can be incredibly helpful.
By enlisting the help of a professional whom your loved one trusts, such as a doctor, they may be more inclined to receive the assistance they need. These confidants can provide recommendations and advice that could be vital in ensuring your loved one receives the care they require. Sometimes, hearing it from someone outside of the family can make all the difference.
Are you feeling overwhelmed trying to find the best in-home care for your loved one?
Caspian Care is here to guide you through the process and provide support every step of the way. We understand that navigating the world of NDIS can be confusing and stressful, but our experienced staff are here to answer all your questions and help you find the perfect solution for your family member.
Don't hesitate to reach out, a simple phone call to Caspian Care can make all the difference.
Let us help you provide the best care for your loved one.